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Be still my heart! I love love this diaper. I bought a flip cover of this for 15 and was told it was sold out after! I got my hands on an elemental though! I am hoping I can find another as I think this addiction is staying. 

It helps I’m an Audrey Hepburn fan!

Be still my heart! I love love this diaper. I bought a flip cover of this for 15 and was told it was sold out after! I got my hands on an elemental though! I am hoping I can find another as I think this addiction is staying. 

It helps I’m an Audrey Hepburn fan!

If you’re a babywearing/cosleeping/breastfeeding/clothdiapering/blah blah blah parent you should reblog this

mamam0nkey:

carrying-hope:

neekathecatlady:

I need more blogs to follow ^_^ 

Everything except for cloth diapers ;)

Same as above! (Although I WISH I could cloth diaper)

If you are interested in cloth diapering you can get started for fairly cheap! 

Posted 4 days ago With 130 notes

Pro Tip

alexstark-the-hunter:

If a little kid draws something and you see it but can’t tell what it is don’t guess at what it is or ask “what is that” because it totally discourages them because they think it’s a bad drawing

Instead ask them if they’ll tell you about their drawing, it gives them a chance to tell you what it is and the parts of it that are important to them and you don’t make them feel bad

Posted 4 days ago With 157 notes

yolesoteldo:

Dear Cutie-Pie,
Recently, your mother and I were searching for an answer on Google. Halfway through entering the question, Google returned a list of the most popular searches in the world. Perched at the top of the list was “How to keep him interested.”
It startled me. I scanned several of the countless articles about how to be sexy and sexual, when to bring him a beer versus a sandwich, and the ways to make him feel smart and superior.
And I got angry.
Little One, it is not, has never been, and never will be your job to “keep him interested.”
Little One, your only task is to know deeply in your soul—in that unshakeable place that isn’t rattled by rejection and loss and ego—that you are worthy of interest. (If you can remember that everyone else is worthy of interest also, the battle of your life will be mostly won. But that is a letter for another day.)
If you can trust your worth in this way, you will be attractive in the most important sense of the word: you will attract a boy who is both capable of interest and who wants to spend his one life investing all of his interest in you.
Little One, I want to tell you about the boy who doesn’t need to be kept interested, because he knows you are interesting:
I don’t care if he puts his elbows on the dinner table—as long as he puts his eyes on the way your nose scrunches when you smile. And then can’t stop looking.
I don’t care if he can’t play a bit of golf with me—as long as he can play with the children you give him and revel in all the glorious and frustrating ways they are just like you.
I don’t care if he doesn’t follow his wallet—as long as he follows his heart and it always leads him back to you.
I don’t care if he is strong—as long as he gives you the space to exercise the strength that is in your heart.
I couldn’t care less how he votes—as long as he wakes up every morning and daily elects you to a place of honor in your home and a place of reverence in his heart.
I don’t care about the color of his skin—as long as he paints the canvas of your lives with brushstrokes of patience, and sacrifice, and vulnerability, and tenderness.
I don’t care if he was raised in this religion or that religion or no religion—as long as he was raised to value the sacred and to know every moment of life, and every moment of life with you, is deeply sacred.
In the end, Little One, if you stumble across a man like that and he and I have nothing else in common, we will have the most important thing in common:
You.
Because in the end, Little One, the only thing you should have to do to “keep him interested” is to be you.
Your eternally interested guy,
Daddy
Happy International Women’s Day

yolesoteldo:

Dear Cutie-Pie,

Recently, your mother and I were searching for an answer on Google. Halfway through entering the question, Google returned a list of the most popular searches in the world. Perched at the top of the list was “How to keep him interested.”

It startled me. I scanned several of the countless articles about how to be sexy and sexual, when to bring him a beer versus a sandwich, and the ways to make him feel smart and superior.

And I got angry.

Little One, it is not, has never been, and never will be your job to “keep him interested.”

Little One, your only task is to know deeply in your soul—in that unshakeable place that isn’t rattled by rejection and loss and ego—that you are worthy of interest. (If you can remember that everyone else is worthy of interest also, the battle of your life will be mostly won. But that is a letter for another day.)

If you can trust your worth in this way, you will be attractive in the most important sense of the word: you will attract a boy who is both capable of interest and who wants to spend his one life investing all of his interest in you.

Little One, I want to tell you about the boy who doesn’t need to be kept interested, because he knows you are interesting:

I don’t care if he puts his elbows on the dinner table—as long as he puts his eyes on the way your nose scrunches when you smile. And then can’t stop looking.

I don’t care if he can’t play a bit of golf with me—as long as he can play with the children you give him and revel in all the glorious and frustrating ways they are just like you.

I don’t care if he doesn’t follow his wallet—as long as he follows his heart and it always leads him back to you.

I don’t care if he is strong—as long as he gives you the space to exercise the strength that is in your heart.

I couldn’t care less how he votes—as long as he wakes up every morning and daily elects you to a place of honor in your home and a place of reverence in his heart.

I don’t care about the color of his skin—as long as he paints the canvas of your lives with brushstrokes of patience, and sacrifice, and vulnerability, and tenderness.

I don’t care if he was raised in this religion or that religion or no religion—as long as he was raised to value the sacred and to know every moment of life, and every moment of life with you, is deeply sacred.

In the end, Little One, if you stumble across a man like that and he and I have nothing else in common, we will have the most important thing in common:

You.

Because in the end, Little One, the only thing you should have to do to “keep him interested” is to be you.

Your eternally interested guy,

Daddy

Happy International Women’s Day

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Posted 1 week ago With 0 notes

I have read and heard a lot of negative hype about the ‪#‎banbossy‬campaign and was asked my opinion. First of all, this isn’t something new. Parents and researches have been saying for a long time that calling your daughter bossy has negative connotations. I myself was and have been called ‘bossy’ and have learned not to take offense at it, but think about what they are saying. I believe in the campaign even if I don’t personally like the celebrities endorsing it. I would like to think that instead of BOSSY my daughter would be called headstrong, confident, or be told she will make a great leader. Let’s be honest, no one calls their boys bossy. This is another POLITE way of secretly saying that your daughter is taking control and being somewhat of a bitch and it makes that child want to avoid situations where they will be shunned for BEING ‘bossy’.

Posted 1 month ago With 1 note

I am thinking about

making some onsies with cute or crafty sayings. Suggestions? If I make yours I will send you one free!

Posted 1 month ago With 1 note

pandoricasbaby:

I really need a onesie that says, “Me dad’s a muggle, mam’s a witch.” I can’t find one anywhere. Why hasn’t someone done this yet?

They are super easy to make if you have a printer! Buy a plain onsie and print on wax paper or some iron paper and then iron on! My personal favorite is the Solemly swear and then on the butt it says mischief managed!

Posted 1 month ago With 71 notes

Let’s show some momblr support!

reblog if you are a mumblr, momblr, crunchy, chewy, or traditional. All that matters is you are a loving parent!

Posted 1 month ago With 3 notes

To pierce or not to pierce?

mariposa-enchantress:

Topic For Today: Do you believe in piercing your baby’s ears or no? 

No! You think it’s cute so you are willing to put your baby through pain for style or fashion!? Wait until they are old enough to make that decision themselves. It’s a fad, one that she may not be into, and one that means hurting them unnecessarily. 

Posted 1 month ago With 107 notes

whatsavesme:

If you are pregnant or have a baby, please like this or reblog so I can follow you! I need more mommy blogs on my dash 

Posted 1 month ago With 187 notes